When you feel drained: understanding low energy and motivation
CareOps editorial team · · 7 min read
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Translated from our Korean guide. Korean public services, insurance, and helpline numbers refer to South Korea. For urgent help elsewhere, contact local emergency services or a crisis line in your country.
There's a lot of work to do, but my body doesn't move. I thought it would get better if I rested, but it's still the same even after lying down all weekend. I wait and think, ‘I should do it when I feel motivated,’ but motivation rarely comes first.
At a glance
- When you are lethargic, ‘let’s move when you feel motivated’ doesn’t work well. Change the order If you make small movements first, the feelings will follow. This method is called behavioral activation.
- Behavioral activation was confirmed to be effective in an analysis of 26 randomized clinical trials dealing with depression, and was not inferior to cognitive behavioral therapy in a large comparative trial.
- If lethargy lasts for more than two weeks and you lose enjoyment in things you enjoy, check for depression.
lethargy symptoms
Lethargy is not an official diagnosis, but refers to a state of low energy and motivation. It often appears like this.
- I know what I need to do, but I don't have the energy to start.
- Even small things like washing up, preparing a meal, or answering a question feel big.
- I don't feel rested even when I rest, and I don't feel refreshed even when I sleep.
- Doing something I liked is annoying and I want to do something about it.
- As the day goes by, I still feel guilty about not being able to do anything today.
Why do I become helpless?
Lethargy has a chain that grows on itself. When you get tired, you become less active, and when you become less active, you have fewer opportunities to feel joy and accomplishment, which then makes you feel more depressed and makes you less active. There is a point where rest becomes part of the chain rather than recovery.
Learned helplessness, the story behind it
‘Learned helplessness’ comes from an experiment in the 1960s. The discovery was that after experiencing unavoidable pain, we do not try to avoid it, even if it becomes possible. However, the researchers who created this theory overturned the interpretation 50 years later based on brain science research (Maier & Seligman, 2016). Lethargy is not something you learn, it is the body's basic reaction that appears when you are having a hard time for a long time, and what you need to learn is rather the sense that 'I can change'.
The clue to this interpretation is clear. The way out of lethargy is not a big decision, but a small experience that lets your body feel again that your actions change the outcome.
Also check the cause in your body
Thyroid dysfunction, anemia, sleep apnea, medications being taken, and nutritional deficiencies can also cause lethargy. If you have been feeling low for several weeks for no reason, the first thing to do is to get a basic checkup at an internal medicine clinic.
Overcoming Lethargy: 5 Steps to Behavioral Activation
Behavioral activation is a method used to treat depression. The key is to move according to a plan, not based on mood.
1. Write down your activities and mood for a few days
For about three days, write down what you did in the morning, afternoon, and evening and how you felt at the time from 0 to 10. Even if you remember, ‘I was depressed all day,’ if you write it down, there were times when you felt a little better.
2. Find an activity that makes you feel better
Look for a moment in your notes when your mood score was even one point higher. It will often involve one of three kinds of experience.
| Type | What it offers | A five-minute example |
|---|---|---|
| Pleasure | Something that feels a little better while doing it | One favorite song or daylight by the window |
| Accomplishment | A sense of having completed something | Washing five dishes or sending one delayed reply |
| Connection | Contact with another person | Greeting a friend or briefly calling family |
3. Plan very small
Instead of ‘exercise,’ decide when, where, and how much, such as ‘walk in front of your house for 5 minutes at 7pm tomorrow.’ It's so easy that it just feels trivial. Five minutes when you're lethargic is as big a deal as an hour normally.
4. Do it regardless of how you feel.
When the time comes, I do it without asking if I want to do it. I’m not doing it ‘because I want to do it,’ but ‘because I plan to do it.’ Even if you quit after 5 minutes, you still stuck to your plan.
5. Write down how you feel after doing it.
Write down how you expected to feel before doing it and how you felt after doing it side by side. When you are helpless, you expect that 'no matter what you do, nothing will change', but the actual number is usually higher than expected. This difference becomes the basis for the next action.
The basis for behavioral activation
In a meta-analysis (Ekers et al., 2014) of 26 randomized clinical trials (1,524 participants) on behavioral activation, this method significantly reduced depressive symptoms compared to no treatment. In a comparative trial conducted on 440 adults in the UK (Richards et al., 2016), behavioral activation was shown to be just as effective as cognitive behavioral therapy. Since the method is simple, it is also good to try on your own in your daily life.
Frequently blocked spot
- The plan is too big. If you can't keep it, it's a matter of size, not will. Reduce it by half.
- I try it for a day and feel like it's not getting better. Changes don't happen once, they accumulate over 2-3 weeks.
- Can't start. Break the first act into two minutes. The method in Procrastination Habit Article works just as well.
- I blame myself on days when I don’t do well. Blaming myself uses up my energy for the next day. I end up changing my plan for tomorrow into something smaller.
When looking at depression together
If lethargy continues almost every day for more than two weeks, pleasure disappears from things you like, and sleep and appetite change, check Early symptoms of depression and seek medical attention. If you feel like you want to disappear, you can call the suicide prevention hotline at 109 (24 hours a day).
How much control do I feel over my life?
At the heart of helplessness is the feeling that ‘no matter what I do, nothing will change.’ The Sense of Control Test consists of seven questions that show how much you feel you can manage your life on your own. Even if it comes out low, it doesn't mean you're that kind of person, it just means you're feeling that way right now.
Try a self-assessment without signing inPearlin Mastery · Sense of controlIf you want to explore how much control you feel you have over your lifeStart the check →Frequently asked questions
- What is the difference between lethargy and depression?
- Lethargy is a typical symptom of depression, but not all lethargy is depression. If you still feel moved by the things you like, it could be fatigue or burnout, and if the loss of enjoyment continues for more than two weeks, check for depression.
- What is the difference between lethargy and burnout?
- Burnout is a state of exhaustion and cynicism, mainly in work-related areas. If you lack energy and interest in life outside of work, you are closer to lethargy or depression. You can see more differences in Burnout Symptoms Article.
- Is there any medicine to take for lethargy?
- It depends on the cause of the lethargy. If it is a physical problem such as thyroid or anemia, treatment is given first, and if depression is the cause, the treatment method is determined at the clinic. Rather than relying on nutritional supplements or medicine without knowing the cause, check it through examination and treatment.
- Is it right to force yourself to do something when you don't want to do it?
- Forcing yourself to do something doesn't last long. It is appropriate to choose one very small task that can be completed within 5 minutes. If you are tired enough to rest, rest, but if you do not feel better after resting for a few days, try adding a little activity.
Sources
- Ekers et al. (2014), Behavioral Activation for Depression; An Update of Meta-Analysis of Effectiveness and Sub Group Analysis, PLoS ONE
- Richards et al. (2016), Cost and Outcome of Behavioral Activation versus Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Depression (COBRA), The Lancet
- Maier & Seligman (2016), Learned helplessness at fifty: Insights from neuroscience, Psychological Review
- Pearlin & Schooler (1978), The Structure of Coping, Journal of Health and Social Behavior
This article provides general information, not diagnosis or treatment. For urgent help, contact local emergency services or a crisis line in your country. In South Korea, the suicide prevention helpline is 109 (24 hours), and the mental health crisis line is 1577-0199.